No matter what draws us together in our significant-other relationships, money will be involved in our lives together in a big way. It is important to our lives in the most obvious way, as it is directly tied to our ability to care for ourselves and others. In fact, it is difficult to think of how life is possible without it anymore. Even if we are supremely thrifty, if we are to have life together we are going to have money--together. It really is a big deal, but it isn’t ve